Applying change to your relationship

Identify What is the issue? Reject Blame Not finger pointing but realizing that change is needed. Be Aware Being aware that everything you do or don’t do, say or don’t say matters. Acknowledge Be clear on what you want to change and why, the how will follow. You have to take the first step, decide to change and to change what. Commitment To effect any change, you have to be committed and work at the issues. Taking responsibility Remember this little gem, “If it’s to be, it’s up to me.” – Michael Angier Giving Teddy Roosevelt: Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. Inventing Change Albert Einstein: All meaningful and lasting change starts first in your imagination and then works its way out. Imagination is more important than knowledge. Be a part of change To want the change, you have to be the change, a part of it. Beginning with Oneself To affect changes, we must first change ourselves. Everything matters Take little steps of every consideration.