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Living and being in today's age, one will find the many hurdles of meeting someone suitable. I may declare myself lucky yet not so lucky. Lucky because I met the man of my dreams - my ideal partner - in my lifetime. Many a times we just settle for the best person, yes, he is someone right, but not the one that you would quite affirm I have waited my whole life for this pearl.  Well, I m not so lucky because he is a committed man and neither of us are going to challenge the morals and pack then jet away living all our responsibilities behind. That's not to say that I can be all cool about the situation and not indulge into my feelings. But he promised me that he being the older one he has to be more responsible and he will be. So while he stays feet firm, my head is also above water although neck down I am submerged! Oh dear!  

The struggles of life sometimes make us wish we didn't have to always do what is right for everyone! 😒

i m in luv

Lucky? or not so...??

My personal Bible Sharing

After losing faith before and learning that at the end God will take control, I m assured and at peace and my faith is renewed. When I meet a hurdle, all I have to do is whisper a quick prayer to God and I m back on my feet by God's grace. How many knock downs can I bear? I believe God won't give me more challenges than I can bear! So today I made up my mind to live my dreams coz yesterday is already lost and won't return. 

lack of informed awareness

lack of information

Scapegoat theory - a collective group constitution in any form or context may exercise this form of prejudice in the light of lack of information, lack of informed awareness

The perpetrators may project blame on an individual or marginalized community due to the arise of personal conflicts or difficult situations as a coping strategy to circumvent issues in their own courtyard. 

 

There are establishments that assist affected parties to manage the stressors that the perpetrators insidiously afflict on receiving-members.

A coping "strategy"

misaligned

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Prejudice

Sometimes you treat someone with respect and sincerity but you do not receive the same respect from them and many a times you wonder why they would choose to hurt you. You wound from the spite they spread about you /behind and wonder where you have unjust them for them to spite you to others. You carry on the relationship but a lopsided one in the hope that somehow the relationship will heal itself. The rumouring and picking on seems to go on and your wounded self begin to doubt. You hurt.

 

The cause of such dynamics could be a perception of the monger’s imbalanced view of your presence; a sense of perceived threat or imbalanced perceived power or favor towards you or just that they cannot connect with you.

 

You lounge into a deep reflection of who you are and where your faults are but honestly no one is perfect. If you are going to feel miserable because someone has chosen to pick on you, you are not doing yourself any justice.  

 

The sincere gentle advice I have received and would like to share with you is this: Believe in God and yourself! And the people who are sincere and care about YoU!  

 

Life is too short to fight unneccessary battles & neglect those whom you should cherish & care for! 

 

Change because you are not happy with yourself or something or because there is a need to in instances where loved ones that deserve your attention are concerned and not because someone has chosen to mark up oneself to feel better by stepping on you. 

 

They may have their issues, but you don't deserve to be at the brunt or receiving end of it, especially when the relationship is not maturing to be progressively supportive or healing for either party, lending to understanding and mutual respect for one another.

 

Live rightfully!

Discrimination 

Tweens

                 Angst

Woes

Cyber                Affairs

Bullying

Promote Healthy Relationships

Thrive

There is a time and season to every melody

but our symphony lasts forever

Embraced

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